I need an advice about my group of friends.

Subject: I need an advice about my group of friends. Tue Nov 26, 2013 2:37 pm

Hey everyone, I know I have been busy lately, but not really inactive.

Anyway, lets get on the topic. I need an advice. Because in my group of friends, it's like things are heating up. They don't like each other. They keep on backstabbing each other. They don't back stab on me, but they pour all of the back stabs about the other person to me. They always wanted me to be on their side or something.

I don't know what to do, I am getting tired of it. I want to fix it, but I don't know how.

Thanks to whoever gives me advices. Smile

You call that a group of friends? I call that a bunch of carnivores animals. Okay you just stay away from them, and go find another person. Like maybe a couple or one person from your group is not doing anything bad so you take that person with you and get away from them. Just there's no thinking about it.

Thanks Sarah! Smile

I actually do have some friends in that group who aren't having a fight. The one who fights are three only. xD

Oh.. Well in that case you either try bringing them back together with the rest of the group or. A. just help one and avoid the two others. B. help two and avoid the other. C. Avoid all three of them or D. Hang out with the three of them on the same day but at different times.

I think that you should hang out with your other friends until things have cooled down with your group of friends.

Or you ask all the 3 why are they doing this and state a reason and why can't they stop.

If they draw you into their fights, tell them that you want nothing to do with it. They need to understand that you're hurt by their actions; they're not mind-readers, and I doubt they can read body language well, so they don't know how it is affecting you. And if they show no signs of caring, then inform them that you will no longer talk to them until they can get the situation under control. If you have already addressed your feelings about their fighting to them and they've ignored you, see my earlier statement of not hanging around them.

That's all I can give you.

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