A Question on Friendship.

Subject: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 9:07 pm

What do you do in an argument with someone when you have done something really bad and you tell them that you are sorry and you understand what you did was wrong and they continue to argue with you? Is there anymore you can do? Should you continue this friendship?

I am really bummed right now and I want you to help me something regarding friendship. Please be as honest as possible. >.> I just don't know what to do at this point.

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 9:56 pm

If you meant when you said sorry then you can't blame yourself if the other person is too stubborn to forgive you. I've been in this situation and I just kept my distance until the other person finally cooled off and came crawling back.

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 10:07 pm

rashid29 wrote:: If you meant when you said sorry then you can't blame yourself if the other person is too stubborn to forgive you. I've been in this situation and I just kept my distance until the other person finally cooled off and came crawling back.

I did mean it and that person doesn't see it and I don't think I have the energy to wait for this person to come back.

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 10:30 pm

TheWonderer wrote:

rashid29 wrote:: If you meant when you said sorry then you can't blame yourself if the other person is too stubborn to forgive you. I've been in this situation and I just kept my distance until the other person finally cooled off and came crawling back.

I did mean it and that person doesn't see it and I don't think I have the energy to wait for this person to come back.

Perhaps they know that and are using it to their advantage. Ask her/him what else do you want them to know that you're sorry. If he/she says nothing than they are probably still grumpy.

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 10:49 pm

rashid29 wrote:

TheWonderer wrote:

rashid29 wrote:: If you meant when you said sorry then you can't blame yourself if the other person is too stubborn to forgive you. I've been in this situation and I just kept my distance until the other person finally cooled off and came crawling back.

I did mean it and that person doesn't see it and I don't think I have the energy to wait for this person to come back.

Perhaps they know that and are using it to their advantage. Ask her/him what else do you want them to know that you're sorry. If he/she says nothing than they are probably still grumpy.

It's just that everytime I am the one saying sorry.

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 11:16 pm

TheWonderer wrote:

rashid29 wrote:

TheWonderer wrote:

rashid29 wrote:: If you meant when you said sorry then you can't blame yourself if the other person is too stubborn to forgive you. I've been in this situation and I just kept my distance until the other person finally cooled off and came crawling back.

I did mean it and that person doesn't see it and I don't think I have the energy to wait for this person to come back.

Perhaps they know that and are using it to their advantage. Ask her/him what else do you want them to know that you're sorry. If he/she says nothing than they are probably still grumpy.

It's just that everytime I am the one saying sorry.

Then that isn't a good relationship. If someone has done something wrong, the other deserves to know that they do regret it. It would take my friend days to learn how to say sorry when I could just say in 5 seconds and actually mean it.

If you feel like you don't need to apologize then why are you apologizing?

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 11:25 pm

My mom always said that if you sincerely apologize over something, but the other person doesn't forgive you, the sin will be on their heads. Basically, if they're not forgiving you, they're the one in the wrong. Like Lily said, you should probably wait for them to cool down.

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 11:27 pm

Stellabigfan wrote:: My mom always said that if you sincerely apologize over something, but the other person doesn't forgive you, the sin will be on their heads. Basically, if they're not forgiving you, they're the one in the wrong. Like Lily said, you should probably wait for them to cool down.

What if they never forgive me?

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 11:46 pm

Stellabigfan wrote:: My mom always said that if you sincerely apologize over something, but the other person doesn't forgive you, the sin will be on their heads. Basically, if they're not forgiving you, they're the one in the wrong. Like Lily said, you should probably wait for them to cool down.

But what if it's been like.... 3 months. And they still haven't cooled down?

I'm still in this situation right now. Should I just end the 'friendship'?

Subject: Re: A Question on Friendship. Sat Sep 06, 2014 11:46 pm

TheWonderer wrote:

Stellabigfan wrote:: My mom always said that if you sincerely apologize over something, but the other person doesn't forgive you, the sin will be on their heads. Basically, if they're not forgiving you, they're the one in the wrong. Like Lily said, you should probably wait for them to cool down.

What if they never forgive me?

Then it's their own problem. They're not a real friend if they never forgive you. But I'm sure they will eventually.

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