Friendship problems

Subject: Friendship problems Fri Jun 14, 2013 10:12 am

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Hi

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Well, this year there has been a lot of drama with friends. Not involving my personally, but just in other ways.

So I've got a good friend, I won't use her real name but lets just say she is called Nicole. Nicole was best friends with another girl called Izzy. But Izzy started to make fun of her, and not in a friend-joking sort of way, it was on purpose. So Nicole joined my group of friends. This year Izzy is in one of my classes, and I've became friends with her. She is the only one in the class who will speak to me since the others have other groups of friends. I didn't, and don't, want to become good friends with her because Nicole hates her and so do some of my other close friends. I don't want to talk behind Izzy's back and pretend that I hate her, because I don't really absolutely hate her. But I've heard the way Nicole talks about her and she really doesn't like her. I feel that I'm betraying Nicole by being friends with Izzy, I've heard things like "you shouldn't be friends with someone who your best friend hates". So what I'm asking is it wrong to be friends with both of them? :|

The second thing is that there is this one person in my group that nobody likes. I have a group of 8 and we all get along really well, we're in sync (kinda like the Winx Club ha). But this one person doesn't fit in. She doesn't do the the things we do. Plus she is REALLY annoying :\ I don't have the heart to tell her that we don't like her, none of us do. What do we do? Do we tell her? OR do we just have to put up with it? I really don't know what to do! D:

Thanks for reading if you have the time to put up with my ridiculous rants xD

Subject: Re: Friendship problems Fri Jun 14, 2013 11:18 am

First of all.. You have to solve and sort things out between Izzy and Nicole.. You're a good girl Nessa don't pretend you hate her just because your "Close friends" do. Ask Izzy what happened between her and Nicole and maybe you can judge by what you have been told.

Second of all.. Okay um.. That is so sad.. You have to do it.. You either keep her in the group and you know live with it or you just tell her.. You have to tell her. Smile

I'm really sorry if I was no help!

Sirenix Fairy Posts : 2033 Age : 30 Location : USA

not sure what to tell u bout izzy and Nicole...sry...that situation has to suck something majorly

with that girl that doesn't fit in...does she have any other friends? or is she just with you's b.c she doesn't know where else to go? I was I girl that didn't really fit in with the group I had in the 1st half of high school, i was told, in a note by the one girl, that they didn't like a,b,c,d,e,f..etc about me, that really hurt, i found new friends that liked me for who i am and am a lot happier, so i would either accept her as she is, or find a nice way to let her go. just don't write a note

Subject: Re: Friendship problems Sat Jun 15, 2013 4:33 am

SarahTheGirlieGamer wrote:: First of all.. You have to solve and sort things out between Izzy and Nicole.. You're a good girl Nessa don't pretend you hate her just because your "Close friends" do. Ask Izzy what happened between her and Nicole and maybe you can judge by what you have been told.

Second of all.. Okay um.. That is so sad.. You have to do it.. You either keep her in the group and you know live with it or you just tell her.. You have to tell her.

I'm really sorry if I was no help!

You did help Sarah, don't worry Smile

I'd probably get different sides of the story that's all...Thanks for the advice!

musa225 wrote:: not sure what to tell u bout izzy and Nicole...sry...that situation has to suck something majorly

with that girl that doesn't fit in...does she have any other friends? or is she just with you's b.c she doesn't know where else to go? I was I girl that didn't really fit in with the group I had in the 1st half of high school, i was told, in a note by the one girl, that they didn't like a,b,c,d,e,f..etc about me, that really hurt, i found new friends that liked me for who i am and am a lot happier, so i would either accept her as she is, or find a nice way to let her go. just don't write a note

I wouldn't tell her via note anyways. If I was really going to tell her how we feel then I'd say it to her face, otherwise I'd be a coward not saying it face-to-face.

A couple of years ago she went to my school, and then for personal reasons she moved away from the city and went to another school. Now she has came back to my school because she apparently likes it better here. To be honest I don't know why she came back, she didn't really have any close friends before. Then she joins my group. She has other friends that have common interests (like music) so I'm not sure why she hangs out with us? :|

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