Bye everyone

Subject: Bye everyone Tue Nov 12, 2013 5:28 pm

First topic message reminder :

I've tried to deal with being told how mean I am and how I should try to be nicer, do this and do that. I've dealt with not being PMed about things but instead being called out on things that I don't even know about.

Katsu and Loxa, I am directing this at the both of you. especially you Katsu since your avatar gives me a migraine if I see it too long. You really aren't doing your job correctly when you shame people in public. I am upset and hurt and extremely pissed off. So I'm leaving since you all can't be bothered with the common courtesy of a PM to tell someone that you have signature rules

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:10 am

zadien wrote:: Opposing opinions create debate and forums thrive on debate.

If you were an active member here, you would know for who this sentence is meant for .__. Anyways, made a big deal out of nothing.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:15 am

Katsu, I figured for the short time I've been here, I have been fairly active. I just don't play games or comment in every topic because I only comment when I have something to say. The Opposing opinions create debate comment was a comment I've had to use in other forums I've participated in. When people all agree, they generally say their piece and the forum dwindles out. There's only so many times you can repeat the same comments before people have nothing else to say. I'm sorry that my opinions aren't welcome here, doesn't mean I'll stop having them.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:37 am

Okay first of all I don't want Megan to leave! She's an amazing person and a very intelligent one!

I don't care if a mod wanted ur siggy to be small or anything, it's not my business.

According to that anyone except, loxa and Kat, or any mod should only post in this topic.

I know u guys want to know why Megan said "bye" but the topic has a pacific description, and that it's mods!

We should let the mods and the member handle this together not 2-4 other members saying "mods should apologize" any kind is that stuff. I just post what the topic mention not what it included. Again, it's not my business or anyone else's except loxa,Kat, and mods. Done.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 2:25 am

Katsu, sorry, but just because you're a mod, doesn't mean you get to decide whose opinions are valid and whose aren't. I get you're upset with me for standing up to you, but don't start talking down to Zadien as well just because she's new. That's neither mature nor becoming of a mod. Especially one who's been going on all day about how she's been the mature one.

Crystal, thanks I appreciate that. However I've been the one being told by 2 mods and 2 members that I'm the only one who should apologize.

Lily and Winx, Just because Katsu is a mod doesn't mean I should just roll over and take her abuse. This isn't about my signature size, it's about how a moderator handled herself when they were told they were in the wrong as to how she handled the situation. Which was very poor for someone who is supposed to keep order on this board.

As Zadien has already said respect isn't just given it needs to be earned. I feel that I have earned respect on here because I am honest with all of you and I take responsibility for things. I don't feel that Katsu has earned my respect because of her actions.

I'm leaving this for John to see now. I'll leave it to him to decide what should be done. Because honestly I don't feel Katsu's actions today of taunting and mocking other members is a proper way for a mod to act

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:16 am

Thats why I have no problems with other members, but you..You are so stubborn, why did you copy only my message from the other topic? Huh.Wat I only said was "domino_kitty though, could make her sig smaller >.>" it may be wrong, but its not something bad. Then you started shouting and saying I am agressive against you, sure.You said you got a migrenia from my avatar, with no futher explanation, so i guess you wanted me to get mad and you're telling us just now about your problem.Anyways this fight was discussed in the mod/admin chat at skype and idc for your PM to John ^^ You're talking about ashaming people? Well you ashamed us before with your topics saying how bad mods are.I also saw the PMs you sent someone I won't speak of and they are really funny. Lily and Winx are not saying that only because I am a mod. You won respect? How? By participating in 300 fights already?

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 11:19 am

Oh my, what is happening here? I went through all of the pages. I was sick for 2 weeks, and now I came back here. And I saw this...

Well, the thing about Domino_kitty, Kat, and Loxa is OUT of my hands, or reach, or whatever you guys call it. I am not included in this situation, therefore I have no rights to but-in unless I have a point to...point out, which I do not have at this moment.

Anyway, since you're going, all I can say is goodbye and sorry. I know that we both had problem before, because I mistakenly posted something months ago. *coughs* I won't talk about it here. Were done with it. xD
Once again, I apologize. And I know were okay now, right? Or no...Ugh never mind. At least the both of us are in peace.

I also apologize if us mods are sometimes like this. I know that you know that us mods are doing our jobs. Okay, I won't say more since I do not want more complications or something.

Goodbye also...Good luck in your life. Smile

If you wanna come back, feel free to do so.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:10 pm

Domino_kitty wrote:: That is passive aggressive behaivour and it is extremely unprofessional.

Nobody said you were agressive, Katsu. There is a clear difference between aggressive and passive aggressive behaviour/communication style.

Just wanted to point this out as it can cause for more communication issues when both are talking about different things.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 1:12 pm

Domino_kitty wrote:

Katsu wrote:: Oh, I am sorry.. I didn't know that, I just thought you meant my avatar looks bad..I am not doing it for attention, but for the sake of this forum.. I don't want it to lose another member cause of me, as i said you share the fault with me.. Loxa sent you a PM and you've replied her with a thing I wont speak out infront of everyone and still didn't change your signature...Plus its in the rules, which are made to get read by members :PI don't get why you take this so serious, when I said nothing bad about you in the Important topic that I made.. You think it was made only cause of you?No. It was made because alot of people have been having big signatures and being pm-ed by mods, but some of them didn't take actions.. so yeah. I mean my apologize.

Yes, you didn't know that flash can trigger seizures and migraines in some people? I don't just say things to be smart or rude. People should be made aware that the quick moving signatures on here can cause seizures and migraines. Those should really not be allowed on here since you don't know if people do have medical problems that can cause that. So you should probably put a spoiler on yours. I shouldn't have to announce to everyone that I have a medical condition simply because you and

I changed my profile picture this morning. As I said already to Loxa in a PM I switched back to the 640 pixel picture which is in the rules that were mentioned. I was also NEVER contacted via PM until 6:40am PST this morning, by that time my signature had been up for over 48hrs and nothing had been said prior to your post about it at 12:24 am PST mentioning me by name which I only found out about because another member and I are friends off of this site and I had told her about the PMs where I had fixed my signature to the 640 pixel size and was still being harassed about it. This was at 7:45am PST.

I live on the West coast in Canada. I have kids to take care of and get ready for school, I can't just get on a computer as soon as I get up. My husband also gets the computer for anything work related before I can use it as well. I check emails and reply from my phone, but I can't change anything in my profile from my phone because the mobile browser doesn't allow any changes or allow for anyone to see pictures or what not. I don't think any of that was taken into consideration.

I am not directly at fault because I had stated in my other signature which I took down this morning that this would only be up for Monday. No one had mentioned that or the rules prior. I did know and I did change the picture size down a few times.

I don't think you or the other mods get what Zadien and I have both said. You mentioned only myself by name in your thread about signatures. No one else was mentioned. That is passive aggressive behaivour and it is extremely unprofessional. When you're in an employment situation and your supervisor has a problem with you, he or she won't just publicly shame you in front of your peers unless he or she isn't professional. If there was an issue with myself or a supervisor had to talk to me, they called me into their office and it was handled in private. That's how things should be handled on here. I doubt you would like to be made an example of any more than I did this morning. And I didn't even know I was being called out and publicly shamed until my friend showed me the link. And yes, I was the only one mentioned on that notice about signatures until you deleted it.

So I'm taking a few days off from this site because I honestly do not feel that I am being treated fairly on here. I'm also not too fond of how you reacted to my friend when she called you on your insincerity. I am contacting John about this and honestly, I feel like I was bullied and made to feel unwelcome by your actions. I shouldn't have had to provide dates and times for everything because you deleted a thread that you couldn't stand by.

I'll continue reading this but I'll reply quickly. Yes you changed it to the 640 AND I have to do another Apology. Basically I was measuring your picture and it kept showing it 800 x 800 with me but it appeared that there have been a mistake by me due to some fixed patterns I did on Paint.net and I didn't figure this until today when I was remeasuring so sorry about that. It was mistake kinda too hard to avoid.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 1:53 pm

I'll have to double post here.

I'm going to say what I see from my point of view. Repeat, from my point of view.

First of all I 100% agree that Katsu shouldn't have posted your name in her thread saying if you can change your signature. I completely agree it's wrong with you at this point and she shouldn't have done it in first place. Nor that we should listen or respect her just because she's a mod, but she never said that. If she did here, then I must have missed it. If she did it elsewhere, I must have not seen it. But she didn't really say that and you're misunderstanding her about her forcing respect.

And what I see Megan, is that you're having a dogma that we're attacking you. While it's just misunderstanding. Repeat, what I see from my point of view. Could be right, could be wrong. I see that you're piling up what we're saying into stuff we aren't saying or making stuff bigger than they are and that's the essence of the problem. For the third time, what I see from my point of view. Also, I don't think that, don't get me wrong, that it's nice to pull the age card every time and say that you're older than all of us.

Yes, you're 32. We get it. You're older than us and more mature and know more. Yes, we know. But, as I said, from my point of view, is that you're kind of trying to put us underground your opinions and stating you're more suited in stuff by keeping telling us you're older and this and that. Once again, for the fifth time, just my point of view.

I had to repeat this point of view to not cause any misunderstandings and hopefully this does settle some stuff.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 2:40 pm

At first she didn't say PASSIVE, in the other topic. So when copyin messages of mine she should copy hers.. I agree with Loxa and the age thing. I already apologized, but she kept it going. She could just talk to me more calm about what I did, instead of going agressive herself.. in the other topic. Anyways, accept my aplogy or not, your choice. I'm gonna ignore any other post that appears in here. Btw im fr phone, so i may have some mistakes.