Bye everyone

Subject: Bye everyone Tue Nov 12, 2013 5:28 pm

First topic message reminder :

I've tried to deal with being told how mean I am and how I should try to be nicer, do this and do that. I've dealt with not being PMed about things but instead being called out on things that I don't even know about.

Katsu and Loxa, I am directing this at the both of you. especially you Katsu since your avatar gives me a migraine if I see it too long. You really aren't doing your job correctly when you shame people in public. I am upset and hurt and extremely pissed off. So I'm leaving since you all can't be bothered with the common courtesy of a PM to tell someone that you have signature rules

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 3:21 pm

Signourney wrote:

Domino_kitty wrote:: That is passive aggressive behaivour and it is extremely unprofessional.

Nobody said you were agressive, Katsu. There is a clear difference between aggressive and passive aggressive behaviour/communication style.

Just wanted to point this out as it can cause for more communication issues when both are talking about different things.

Like I said again no one than Kat, loxa, Megan, and mods can only post in this topic for some strong reason. I know u wanted to say what kind of behavior is different from another but your getting into their conversation and it's not really our business. Let them solve the problem not u, Or me, or any other member that doesn't really know the situation.done!

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 3:37 pm

Katsu, I talked to John, I showed him all of your posts towards myself and Zadien and he is going to talk to you about it because he wasn't very happy with how you acted. You had said "Domino kitty's signature is too big, she should make it a spoiler' Then you attacked me over stating that I had not ignored a mods' PMs but had changed the size to 640 pixels. Then you told me I had left it too long and when I told that to my husband last night, he laughed because that wouldn't matter since the size is still 640 pixels. If that was an issue you should have said something when I had my Riven have a Snickers signature up. I do appreciate you removing your signature picture, but your apology I can't accept because it doesn't seem sincere. You never apologized for saying my name in public, you never apologized for saying I am jealous of your photoshop skills and you never apologized for implying that as one of 'those people' I should know better but you can't reason with one of those people.

Yes, I understand a mod's POV, but to attack someone's character and age in such a manner is unacceptable in any form for any means. Especially when you're a mod. If something is an issue with me I prefer a PM. That is what Loxa did and I had changed my picture back and for some reason she was still reading it as 800 pixels when it was 640. So my husband studied 3D modelling and knows a lot more about photoshop than anyone on here, so I asked him. And he said that the length shouldn't matter since the size is correct. Which is something else Katsu decided to attack about.

So yes, I talked to John last night and hopefully something is done because this wasn't handled correctly. And the mods should be acting better than the members, but the members shouldn't be told they can't argue with a mod if something isn't right.

Finally sorry, Loxa, but see things from my point of view, I'm being yelled at by people close enough in age to be my kids. And for a lot of things it's something that shouldn't even be an issue.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 4:30 pm

No one is yelling at you and John talked to me before I replied here ;D Silly of you to ask him such a thing, lol. And the fact you're bigger than use doesn't mean you gotta always be right. Lenght does matter, is he the admin to know? Make it 1040px height and lets see how it won't matter.Im going to apologize for something thats half my fault. You black mailed me, but you didn't say how you started attacking ^^ Can we stop this already?I know its a pity for you, that you still gonna see me around the forum, but we can just ignore each other until theres an urgent reason not to.I'm sorry for pointing out your name in the topic, instead PM-ing you.Can you ignore my first half of this reply, so we wouldn't continue this fight and just read my apology ^^

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 6:49 pm

I didn't black mail you dear, I really do get seizures from things like your signature.

I never attacked you. So no I can't just ignore the first half of your reply because of your nasty attitude. Your apology means nothing because your actions aren't sincere. Are you even reading how you're still speaking to me?

Heck if John doesn't do something I'll go to the site admins. This isn't about the ruddy signature. This is about your treatment of members on this board. And your attitude. It's condescending and rude.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 7:01 pm

Not talking about your migrenia and seizures.Yes you did attack me, I only said "domino kitty though, could make her sig smaller >.>" then you wrote a mean reply.. forgot that? My actions are sincere, since I am tired of fighting. Im not gonna aplogize to you again then, if you think you are my goddess and act hard to get..I apologized more than 4 times and you say I am not sincere, you can't know when I am and not. Also site admins also know (: I told you already that.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 7:55 pm

If I attacked you, prove it. No one attacked you. You singled me out of course I reacted. And you know I have never gotten into a fight on here with anyone.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:00 pm

Can't prove it, since i've deleted the topic? You only saved my messages... Yes, you got into a lot of fights >.> Ur last one was a politicial one with spiralcloudah ~ And thats not the only one. You even have made several topics complaining about members.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:08 pm

A political debate is not the same as an argument. I get into them with a lot of people who I'm friends with. You can't use that as an example since we didn't name call and there was nothing off the page.

You also know that anything else is past and wasn't even up for a ban, aside from you no one has ever brought up being banned. Seriously, you want me to think you're sorry while you get mad at me for standing up for myself because I'm 32?

I'm just curious, would you talk to your teachers or your parents the same way you or anyone else has talked to me the past day and a half? Because if my kids did talk to me that way they'd find themselves grounded. Anything I've said to any of you is the same as what I'd say to my 9 year old.

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Okay this topic has turned into a battlefield, if you wanna battle go to the Grand Magix Games Battlefield (dont, its a joke) But seriously, I need you two to stop fighting alright? Kat, I'm disappointed, you too Meg. This is a topic for saying good bye, not a battlefield, so please stop it.

Subject: Re: Bye everyone Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:30 pm

All I did was defend myself. I don't appreciate being age shamed or being the only one brought up in a topic on something. If I got a real apology instead of you did this, this and this, then yes fine.

But an apology shouldn't include a list of past transgressions.