No one tells me anything

Subject: No one tells me anything Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:27 pm

Sometimes I feel that people don't tell me secrets and things that have happened with my friends. I know they like me and are not talking about me. But I never really cared until today. When I got to school I went over to my friends and they were talking about something. I asked them what they're talking about and they said nothing. Then one of my best friends looked REALLY upset but everyone wouldn't tell me what was wrong. Even the girl didn't tell me. Help i'm getting annoyed

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:36 pm

Uggh thats annoying. Yeah peeps can be like that sometimes. You know people might form their own groups within your own friends and might be closed off to telling people secrets but don't take it too personally. Everyone feels like the odd one out from time to time.

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 5:08 am

That happens to me sometimes though. Sad

You know, I say you try sneaking up, not like the bad way, you got to know if they are mad at you or something. You need to know what is going on. That works for me! I hope that helps...

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 6:03 am

That always happens to me. They always say that. Before you ask them what are you talking about come up with a really good comeback. Maybe, they're planning something. You never know.

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 8:29 pm

NATURE KICK

SIRENIX★
YOU'RE THE
INSPIRATION

★THE POWER OF THE
SEAS INSIDE OF YOU

let me just state here one very true thing;
you cannot trust people.

''he doesn't trust anybody, thats why he got so far''
is what somebody once said about someone else i admire very much.

it sounds horrible and stupid but think about it ....

in other words, if you see , feel, know they are lying or keeping things from you and you know there should be no reason for them to do that, you need open your pretty little mouth and tell them to speak up.

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 8:58 pm

Who cares! They'll tell you if it concerns you. Or just do a little snooping

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 9:09 pm

i dont want to snoop im just tired of being the last to know.

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 9:18 pm

Mockingjay23 wrote:: i dont want to snoop im just tired of being the last to know.

NATURE KICK

SIRENIX★
YOU'RE THE
INSPIRATION

★THE POWER OF THE
SEAS INSIDE OF YOU

and you want to hear from us then, what exactly?

we are not here to feel pitty for you because you are the last one to know stuff....
if you dont dare to speak and try to change things around that are obviously bothering you in your school life, then what advice is there left for us to give to you?

not to sound harsh or anything but what you are going through right now is something WE ALL HUMANS HAVE TO DEAL WITH at some point in our lives
its one of those common human things in life.... knowing you are not getting involved in everything a 100%

try to remember thats MAYBE cause of a reason though
....who knows
only they do and if you want to find that out.....................

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 9:19 pm

I know, I hate that too. You don't want to be left out too but like Di Zio said you would need to be more assertive and ask your friends, probably at a later time, what they're hiding but don't do it in a mean way. Just tell them "Hey I don't like how you haven't been honest with me and I would like to know what's wrong", or something like that. Best friends shouldn't be hiding stuff from you.

Subject: Re: No one tells me anything Thu Apr 04, 2013 9:41 pm

I have to agree with Di Zio and MK. If it's bothering you so much, stand up and ask. Waiting isn;t going to get you anywhere.