lmodern1878 Believix Fairy
Posts : 306 Age : 33 Location : CA, USA Hobbies : being a WINX FAN... HARDCORE!
| Subject: REG: Out of Hope Sun Apr 23, 2017 6:07 am | |
| hello fellows:
I'm seriously wondering how to handle this situation. Here's where the story's from: My now ex-girlfriend Lindsay*, just point-blank moved back in with her family after about almost a whole year being independent and living with my mother and I. She had moved out by sheer determination and force of will considering how her parents were treating her (e.g. treating her as her disabilities rather than as a person who has disabilities). We were on vacation towards the latter part of last month and things just kept going sideways. One day I just say I need help and she encourages me to get the help. While I'm in the hospital getting help, she goes and handles a medical appointment and comes back. Once we come back, she sends a text to me saying she's moving back in with her family but she's going to still honor her obligations on the lease she signed. then we get a notice that she signed off the least thus my rent is going up by another $150 to help to cover the difference. she cited that we were "keeping her from her family" when all we did is that she said she wanted to see her family we just had one "rule" that she was able to reliably get there and back (either by bus or if her family would be willing to pick her up and drop her back off or some combination of the 2).
fast-forward to now and I'm lonely, sad, and scared now that there is no one here to comfort me. please does anyone have any advice on finding me a replacement for all the hand holding and hugs and just a friend in general? | |
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talgoose Sophix Fairy
Posts : 512 Location : El Salvador Hobbies : Magnanime, Movies, books
| Subject: Re: REG: Out of Hope Sun Apr 23, 2017 6:46 am | |
| Maybe we're not able of be with you physically, but at least you can count qith us in this site, by what i'm able of understand, maybe your friend need to realize who really care for her and she's acting in that form only being confused. | |
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lmodern1878 Believix Fairy
Posts : 306 Age : 33 Location : CA, USA Hobbies : being a WINX FAN... HARDCORE!
| Subject: Re: REG: Out of Hope Sun Apr 23, 2017 12:43 pm | |
| - talgoose wrote:
- Maybe we're not able of be with you physically, but at least you can count qith us in this site, by what i'm able of understand, maybe your friend need to realize who really care for her and she's acting in that form only being confused.
That is an entirely valid point. another possibility that a friend at work came up with is that her parents/family convinced her that because I was seeking help (which she encouraged me to get) that I'm truly the bad person they've always made me out to be. what I mean by that last part is that the mother always told her when she got her independence that I was "going to chop her up into a million little pieces and shove her in a closest." or that I was "just using her and did not have her best interest at heart" and on and on it goes. the mother even said while she was at her medical appointment while I was in the hospital that "Carly gets hospitalized 'just for fun'" | |
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