lmodern1878 Believix Fairy
Posts : 306 Age : 33 Location : CA, USA Hobbies : being a WINX FAN... HARDCORE!
| Subject: REG: Loneliness Sun Dec 27, 2015 6:31 am | |
| Hello Fellow Winx Fans:
I seriously need your assistance on a matter. Without getting into too much of the "technical details" here's my predicament:
My roommates had to leave on the 9th of novenber due to one of them having a family member who had has a pretty severe medical event. Due to some horrible things which happened to me during the holidays, I don't do too well around thanksgiving and christmas alone, this is the whole reason my roommates were assigned me by the board of directors (they're also a couple of co-workers) as a "security detail to ensure the same or similar events don't occur ever again" in the words of one board member.
Due to the sudden and unexpected departure of my roommates so they could deal with the family member who had a medical event, it was proposed that someone take there place (including security functions, hand holding, hugs, companionship role, etc.). This did not work out too well as the person who was meant to replace them decided to starve me for love and affection, put my personal safety at risk and in general treat me like a second class citizen in my own home to an internet connection which my job was paying for. Since that did not work out, I've been dealing with extended periods of extreme loneliness and isolation. Does anyone have any idea how to overcome this? I already feel unsafe as it is being alone for any reason and I dearly miss my roommates. | |
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Potitius Sirenix Fairy
Posts : 2824 Hobbies : Archery
| Subject: Re: REG: Loneliness Sun Dec 27, 2015 8:12 am | |
| I personally know how much loneliness can gnaw at yourself. But since the replacement is so horrible at his job I guess it's best to call up your roommates and try to get them back again.
I'm really sorry I can't help you myself since you're overseas. BUt all I can do is tell you to try and keep your head up! If you need someone to talk just poke me or some other volunteers on the forum. I'm sure there's someone able to chat or in extreme needs visit you!
Now keep strong. Put up some soothing music and tell that replacement that he is a horrible one and fails at what he is supposed to do: speak up. Be truthfull and let your issues be known! | |
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lmodern1878 Believix Fairy
Posts : 306 Age : 33 Location : CA, USA Hobbies : being a WINX FAN... HARDCORE!
| Subject: Re: REG: Loneliness Sun Dec 27, 2015 8:30 am | |
| thanks for that!
my roommates (Krystal and Jennette) are well aware of the situation, the replacement (Makayla) was notified several times before being asked to leave (note that Makayla spent 99.999% of her time on the phone or the internet and not doing the job she was appointed and she doesn't even work for our company. she was selected based on the contents of her customer jacket (profile/history)) She claimed to me that she was "not ready for a relationship" yet now she's in Washington state in a relationship with her supposed brother. I was being strong along.
As for Krystal and Jennette, they are trying to get back here because of this horrible trun of events. they can only try as Jennette's mom is hopefully going to get better by early to mid february next year. | |
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Potitius Sirenix Fairy
Posts : 2824 Hobbies : Archery
| Subject: Re: REG: Loneliness Sun Dec 27, 2015 8:50 am | |
| Hmmmm... And are you not able to go to one of your roomates? We dutch got a saying: if Mozes won't come to the mountain the mountain sill come to him.
Also you've got a forum full of wonderfull persons here. I'm sure there's someone nearby for you. If you really wish I could try to see if I know someone living nearby to you. Do note this isn't success garanteed >.<
I really hope a solution can be found for you! Spending those days alone is far worse than being alone in general. Good luck and keep heart! | |
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lmodern1878 Believix Fairy
Posts : 306 Age : 33 Location : CA, USA Hobbies : being a WINX FAN... HARDCORE!
| Subject: Re: REG: Loneliness Sun Dec 27, 2015 9:03 am | |
| Thanks again for the reply:
due to limitations imposed by physical disabilities I cannot get to my roommates, that I think is the biggest stumbling block. The next biggest stumbling block is that I need to stay in my current (fixed) location because of the myriad of doctors and other specialists I need to see so even if i were to say ask my roommates to come pick me up and let me be with them, I'd be missing a lot of medical appointments. Due to certain other aspects of who I am, I have very specific requirements for compatibility for any physical contact.
I can provide you the current specifications (known in the working group as "Makayla Jane 2016 Specifications: A specification set to determine compatible human interfaces for holographic companionship") It's Still a draft, hence why it's still in working group. I can also provide you a link to my autobiographical documentation which details everything in a huge amount of detail. Those documents will be provided via PM here on site if you need them.
Thanks again for your help: happy holidays!
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Potitius Sirenix Fairy
Posts : 2824 Hobbies : Archery
| Subject: Re: REG: Loneliness Sun Dec 27, 2015 9:08 am | |
| All I can do is try to find others nearby for you or give you someone to talk with online. Sadly enough this is without physical comfort.
I think it's better not to just send such personal matter around online. Never do that though on public spots. But other than that I will do what I can to help you!
Now what usually comforts you or cheers you up when you're alone?
And it's fine really. I'm with the same issues but since I'm just another white guy I'm hugless >.< But making someone else happier will cheer me up as well. Keep heart, hold tight and be strong! | |
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